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Trust your own experience of your type.

2/ Be enercy efficient

Energy is the second most important resource next to time. 'waste their time on pointless things and at the same time complaining not getting enough things done."

3/ Be intentional w/ people.

"...don't proceed w/ enough purpose or rational. " It's ok to be this way

4/ Ground patterns in data

...good at connect the dots and observe the patterns.

...for many people and types, they don't think about the world in this way. They aren't natually looking for patterns, trends, try to read the lines, see the big picture of make these connections between things.

-> this is your natural gift.

5/ Gain independence through service.

-> consulting is a career track worth pursuing: 只需要look for pattern and see the big picture，剩下重復(fù)性強(qiáng)人際關(guān)系強(qiáng)的執(zhí)行工作可以交給甲方。

6/ Everything is a lesson.

"Detached, dispassionate and objective analytical" mind is my natural gift.

B/c INTJs aren't offended or insulted, so the edge of INTJs is to analyse, dissecting and understanding the reasons for each failture while others are.

所以不要快速離開(kāi)當(dāng)前情況，留出buffer time總結(jié)經(jīng)驗(yàn)。尤其是團(tuán)隊(duì)proj。自省可以少一點(diǎn)。

7/Leap first

...forgot how randomly we ended up in these situations, it's not linear

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• 接受隨機(jī)性，并非每個(gè)因會(huì)得到一個(gè)果，放下對(duì)已經(jīng)預(yù)計(jì)好的走向track的執(zhí)著 -->享受過(guò)程。
• 有太多隨機(jī)變量->無(wú)法做到fully prepared for things to happen。只要認(rèn)為應(yīng)該發(fā)生，那么應(yīng)該采取行動(dòng)，而不是繼續(xù)scheming和planning
• 優(yōu)勢(shì)是take control of the chaos。planning并非是only strength，所以
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  "throw themselves into situations that are chaotic/uncertain/uncomfortable”可以激發(fā)此種潛力，而且解決隨機(jī)變量的問(wèn)題。
• INTJs are sometimes optimizer, they can sometimes get stuck at local maximums.
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  shake things up and take a leap
• 所以實(shí)際上最有效率的approach是最大化兩個(gè)traits。因?yàn)?/li>
• 有非常多的隨機(jī)變量是我無(wú)法plan：leap in first
• 我可以take control of the chaos and local maximize things: 在已經(jīng)跳進(jìn)去之后我可以持續(xù)優(yōu)化。'bring the Ni back in"

8/Style is the gateway to substance

They are people who want very much to be authentic ->你不需要那么“真誠(chéng)”。是可以做一些表面的工作的。this is the paradoxical part of yourself that can be handeled.

9/ Avoid isolation at all cost.

it's better to be surrounded by people you find stupid than to be isolated!!!! ...conteracts many of the dangers INTJs might encounter, such as delaying taking actions

...forcing yourself to be around people isn't pleasant all the time but it's important!! Staying contact with the humans b/c they can be useful sometimes!!!!

10/ There're no stupid people.

與其只是覺(jué)得他們很蠢，不如借機(jī)訓(xùn)練自己see the logic underneath (though they might have no logic:)))

11/ Avoid sensory indulgence and rage.

results of stress.所以解決焦慮可以很好的解決，解法即：

• 和自然相處
• 和人相處
• 減少完美主義, leap in first

12/ Prioritize experience over achievement

everything is an experience, that's true!!! But I'm talking here about things that experience is the primary focus.